Invisibility at work? Restore Rapport and Reappear!
It has happened to me several times along my career and I wonder if it has happened to you. "It" is a feeling that you just don't seem to be part of the interaction, closely followed by a sense that you might as well not be there. For some people "It" happens at meetings when the good idea you have just suggested does not get heard and then, when it resurfaces later, someone else gets the credit. It happens when you get the impression your top executives and managers don't know who you are and could care less! You feel invisible and it hurts. The good news is that you are not invisible and there are things that you can do straight away to make your presence felt. More about that shortly. And those hurt feelings? These suggest to me that you probably are a competent and reliable worker and are a bit annoyed that these qualities are not being affirmed in your workplace by people you like, want to get on with and maybe even want to impress. The...